When Attachment Becomes The Obsession

 What do u think when u hear  the word attachment??

So, today I m gonna tell u about the actual meaning and the consequences ,we face due to this word...


                                                                                                              

                                              The Actual Meaning


Attachment is the word we should fear
It can destroy you without you realizing it
It doesn't get you wounded 
But it makes you suffer internally ..


Attachment keeps you depended ,
The happiness that should come from within 
When it comes from the other person 
You become enslaved to them for every thing 
You loose youself in the process of pleasing them 
Never get attached to anyone 
The more you get attached....
 the more you get detached from your true self!

It is the only thing that gives you  so much pain without you even being hurt ..

                                                                                                                     

                                             Consequences

"Aisa hota hain na ki jab aapke koi bahut kareeb ho or aapko Aisa lagne lage that u can share anything with them and slowly slowly pta hain kya hota hain hum unpe dependant ho jate hain humari jab bhi unse ladai ya fir unse baat nhi hoti hai na toh aisa lagta hain ki kya kiya jo call nhi aaya ya message nhi aaya or fir hum unko apne pass rakhne ke liye explanation dene lagte hain. I know ki har koi nhi karta but kuch log na bas ek Aisa person chahte hain zindagi main jo unko samjhe ,chahe vo dost ho ya lover or jab koi halka sa bhi care karta hain na toh yeh sab hone lagta hain .... Apne aap ko  kisi par dependant ya attach karna bura nhi hain par saamne waala bhi utna  he attach hona chahiye ... Jab vo insaan duri bhadata hain, toh khudka dil he tut ta hain na ...  Dosti and Pyaar na dil se hona chahiye; par kabhi bhi itna Dil ke pass na laao ki jab vo dur jaaye na toh dil ka tukra le jaaye "

                                                                                                                                                                         


 "From the start , it should be from the heart..."

 Otherwise one has to suffer heart break at the end .. not all attachments are romantic, some are platonic in life ....The only attachment  we should have is with our parents because  they don't give up on you  even when you are giving up on youself or distance you when you have a misunderstanding with them. Maybe it is blood but the truth is  they are the only ones who tend to come around when we feel like our world is closing down.... Frndship is one factor  where the attachment should be shown cautiously... Not all of them plans to be with you throughout your life. 

Your heart hurts the most when they leave u even when you need them the most.........



Tell in comments about the person to whom you feel attached the most????



-----R A..




Comments

  1. Well done dear !❤️ U have done a grt job ..By the tym I was reading ur blog my heart was crying bcoz we all can connect with ur blog ...But fortunately the person with whom I m attached the most is a blessing for me bcoz whenever I need him or wants to with him he is alwz there for me🤞✨..

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